new kitten questions

[gabybe]

very sad to say Binksy's swabs came back from the vets and he has cat flu - they think he is probably immunocomprimised (hence small weight) so sadly he has gone back to the breeder today - i desperately wanted to keep him but was advised by many people that i could be committing myself to a lifetime of problems (with respiritory problems/cattery problems/never being able to have another cat etc) - even though i have only had him 8 days i feel so sad and will miss my boy very much - thank you to all that have posted in the last week - hopefully i will get another kitten in the next few months :-(