Thread: One cat died, do I get another?

That is so sad,it is bad enough loosing a pet but to an accident is even worse,how do they manage to find "that spot"that you are unaware of.....
I agree with others when time feels right go get Tortie a friend,as for personalities don't try & match to what you think is right for Tortie it is you that has to feel it is the right one for you & your family,right for you will be right for Tortie because you won't keep thinking have we got the one with the right personalty to suit it will just be introducing the new member that your heart has fallen for.All MC's have different personalities,the underlying traits are there,luv of water,intelligence etc but the rest is like humans,some like cuddles,some don't,some prefer to lay beside you,some like your lap & closer contact but they all have the seperate bits that you luv about that one cat,we have had one that was hard work & distant but in her later years was a love bug right down to one that has been a purring love bug from day one,out of the six that we have been lucky enough to share our home with not one has been exactly the same as another,all I know is I could never have a house now without a MC in it,they keep you on your toes,they make you laugh,they can make you cross when that flower box loses all its innards again,they can make you cry but out there somewhere is always another to help, go & fall in love again....x