Hi catlover,yep stress & infection are two of the main causes that the vet picks up heart murmurs from in both cats & dogs but when the animal improves then the murmur more often than not disappears,if stress related it is normally in the younger animal but as they get used to coming in although they still hate it the stress levels must reduce as the murmur very often is no longer audible.
Oh what a worry having pets is,you wouldn't be without them but....!