Thread: Tell me I am just being paraniod please !

I agree, email her, tell her you feel disappointed at not being able to visit your kitty and you were confused and worried with her response and hopefully she'll be honest.
It may be she was genuinely busy and didn't appreciate how she has made you feel, or she has a personal problem she's dealing with and you caught her at a bad moment. We all have those phone calls where you just don't feel like talking and you don't stop to think how you are being perceived on the other end.
However, if you email and get no reply or she won't fix a date for you to visit then there may well be cause for concern.